Popular Nigerian comedian, Teju Babyface (Teju Oyelakin) has offered candid advice to married men and women.
He said: “Never confess to Cheating: The Shocking Truth! Everyone tells you to ‘come clean’ if you cheat.”
“Even the Bible is misquoted to back that up. But let me be clear: confession is to God, not to your spouse.”
“When you confess to them, it is not honesty, it is manipulation. You are just transferring your guilt and sabotaging your relationship. There is no benefit to them (your spouse). All the benefit is yours.